Why Not Say What Happened A Memoir Born into one of the most celebrated Anglo Irish families the Guinnesses Ivana Lowell grew up at the whim of two literary heavyweights her mother writer Lady Caroline Blackwood and stepfather poe

  • Title: Why Not Say What Happened?: A Memoir
  • Author: Ivana Lowell
  • ISBN: 9780307387400
  • Page: 476
  • Format: Paperback
  • Born into one of the most celebrated Anglo Irish families, the Guinnesses, Ivana Lowell grew up at the whim of two literary heavyweights her mother, writer Lady Caroline Blackwood, and stepfather, poet Robert Lowell Now, with an incisive eye and a wicked sense of humor, she shares the stories we ve always wanted to hear She tells of following the famous authors from oneBorn into one of the most celebrated Anglo Irish families, the Guinnesses, Ivana Lowell grew up at the whim of two literary heavyweights her mother, writer Lady Caroline Blackwood, and stepfather, poet Robert Lowell Now, with an incisive eye and a wicked sense of humor, she shares the stories we ve always wanted to hear She tells of following the famous authors from one crumbling, drafty country house to another, and of summers spent with madcap relatives such as her maternal grandmother, the Marchioness of Dufferin and Ava, and her old friend, the Queen Mother But Ivana also has darker stories to tell about her childhood accident, about her own stints in rehab, and, finally, about discovering the secret Lady Caroline had successfully kept from Ivana her entire life.

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    1. This slightly flat memoir apparently ticked off many people (is it the feeling that if someone's this glamorous, well-connected and wealthy, they don't really have any business fucking up?) but it wasn't that bad. Her memories of her stepfather (Famous Poet Robert Lowell), mother (Famous Muse/Writer Caroline Blackwood) and grandmother (Famous Bitchy Eccentric) are evocative, even if the prose style is slack, and if the details of her relationship with Mr Miramax drag on, her struggle to choose b [...]

    2. Ivana Lowell is a Guinness heiress. That means every time someone cracks open a pint of Guinness, cha-ching, Ivana gets richer. She hobnobs with actors, writers, the very rich, and royalty. Oscar de la Renta made her wedding dress. She got handed a job at Miramax, she has a "condo" (that's Brit-speak for penthouse) in Manhattan, a house in Long Island, a castle in Ireland, another castle that her mother bought from Princess Diana's brother, and she grew up in the USA and the UK. She went to excl [...]

    3. If you have read and enjoyed A Charmed Life: Growing Up in Macbeth's Castle and/or Dead End Gene Pool: A Memoir, and you enjoy hearing about the dysfunction, self medicated lives of the children loosely raised by parents who were never really equipped to function like resposible adults, then this book is definitely for you.Ivana Lowell tells the story of her rather lonely and chaotic childhood. She lived in a succession of different houses, spent time in England, Ireland, Boston and New York gro [...]

    4. I usually detest gushy, mushy, self reflective, abuse & addiction filled, A Child Called It-esque first person stream of consciousness memoirs, particularly those written by celebrities. I rank them right below textbooks and right above instructions manuals written in China. Celebrity tell-alls are always filled with tales of woe and cocaine, and pretty light on the actual names. Naming names is the most exciting part of a celebrity memoir, right? Ivana Lowell's memoir names names and doesn' [...]

    5. What happened is Crazy Families and their legacy. The famously bipolar Robert Lowell, whose canonical poem, “For the Union Dead,” recently had its half-century anniversary celebrated (theatlantic/culture/ar ) went so far as to help create another Crazy Family in England, and while he was not Ivana Lowell's biological father (this particular issue is a crucial one in this throughly enjoyable book), he is warmly remembered by his stepdaughter.In fact, if mostly shielded from the worst of his b [...]

    6. Don't be put off by those who are bitching about the poor little rich girl who doesn't recognize the value of her millions or her connections. There are far too many celebrity memoirs being written today, but this is one that is remarkably compelling and quite unflinching in its honesty. Ivana Lowell, despite every advantage, is impoverished in every way that counts and has had to face real tragedy, and a gene pool that although wealthy (Guinness Breweries) is also afflicted with alcohol, suicid [...]

    7. Ivana Lowell's memoir of her life as a member of the famed Guinness clan has some fascinating moments. Her mother was novelist and muse to many Caroline Blackwood, and her stepfather (and the main father figure in her life) was poet Robert Lowell. This didn't exactly make for a stable childhood; Blackwood was an alcoholic and Lowell was bipolar. Ivana's maternal grandmother, Maureen Guinness, is both fascinating and rather repugnant. She was an aristocrat, but her sense of humor was rather low-b [...]

    8. That's right, I'm giving this one the big 5 stars. Read it and weep, haters. Ivana Lowell tells her story with the only title fitting, Why Not Say What Happened?, b/c that's pretty much the tone of the book. I can't imagine her having held anything back. It must be all here (pubic hair transplant, drunken disgraces, dating second cousins, etc.). The subject was definately interesting. Her mother was nothing less than fascinating, AND, I found Iavana to be a pretty good writer to boot (there is a [...]

    9. Really breezy, gossipy read. Ivana Lowell is a Guinness (beer) heiress and the daughter of the writers Robert Lowell and Caroline Blackwood (also a Guinness girl). It's a memoir (how do I keep reading these?) full of the seemingly predictable trials of addiction and abuse. I enjoyed her writing style (very conversational, light) and she has an interesting perspective, having grown up as an aristocrat among her parents' literary circle. Probably not for anyone with a taste for more serious materi [...]

    10. Interesting for its portrait of writer Caroline Blackwood and Robert Lowell. Not very well written and very sad but the author is likable and it is easy to read this despite the uneven quality of the writing.

    11. Very honest and raw. I found it very interesting. Lowell writes about someone who was a friend of my parents - Ivan Moffat - who she later discovers was her biological father. Her descriptions of him really capture the man I knew as a child.

    12. Sturm und drang, childhood neglect, alcoholism among the wealthy, titled British upper classes and much name-dropping.

    13. What happened? Nothing happened, except they were drunk and rich and no one knew who their real father was.

    14. WORTH READINGdictions rule lives and and are very hard to beat. They become generational and the pain goes on and on.

    15. The world of the have-a-lots is intrinsically appealing to outsiders and insiders. Glamour and power bounce from the gilded facades of the rich, famous and infamous, and we might just catch a ray; a secondary glow seems better than none. We can’t help at least glancing through the tabloids to read about the latest scandal and to get a glimpse of someone’s tumble or rise. Ivana Lowell’s memoir “Why Not Say What Happened?” plays directly into our eager appetites for the lavish and sensat [...]

    16. She’s from a wealthy, titled family [Guinness heiress, her maternal grandmother is the Marchioness of Dufferin and Ava] so why should we care about a memoir by Ivana Lowell? For me: I adore memoir; I’m an anglophile; I like fine things and fancy to-do’s plus the literary and acting worlds of which Lowell is a part; and Lowell writes with candor as if she’s addressing a friend over tea. Why Not Say What Happened? is hardly a throw-away memoir but delves into the darkness of alcoholism tha [...]

    17. Well folks, right out of the gate I felt like I wasn't going to really enjoy my time in bed with this book. Lowell comes right out of the gate crying about the life of wealth, fame and the rest. I mean, the lower caste of society isn't reading to hear about your privileged life, but rather how you managed to fuck it all up. It's like when the pretty girl gets a nasty acne flare up before prom or when the smart girl whips up her hand in traditionally speed-of-light fashion and then flubs the answ [...]

    18. I loved this book. Ivana Lowell and her parents Caroline Blackwood and Robert Lowell. Dysfunction at its best. Truly interesting characters trying to find their way in the world. Reading this book sent me on a fact finding mission to read mini-biographies of the various characters in Ivana's life. I also read a full length biography of Robert Lowell after reading this book.Many reviews of this book are negative. There's a whole lot of hate because of the affluence Ivana was born into (Guinness m [...]

    19. For some people such as myself, growing up without a father is something we just absorb into our lives. But for Ivana Lowell, growing up with a step-father, the poet Robert Lowell whom she adored, and three potential biological fathers whom she knew, paternity was shifting ground. This memoir is fascinating on many levels: Ivana's journey of self-discovery and the discovery of her father's identity; the relationship between her and her mother, Lady Caroline Blackwood; and the legacy of being a m [...]

    20. This book got a lot of negative criticism on amazon for its early-reader voice, and I agree with all that. But the author is simultaneously great at stating plainly the emotional turmoil of being a child in a dysfunctional family, being neglected and abused. And, it's well organized, and well-edited, with a good pace. Another criticism from amazon which I did not find annoying: name-dropping. I enjoyed the name-dropping, and it seemed really of-a-piece with the writer's life - she had three famo [...]

    21. "Named after a line from a poem by Robert Lowell, her mother's third husband and an important stabilizing presence in her early life, this self-searching, poor-little-rich-girl story is, in ways, a search for a father. Alcoholism ran through Ivana Lowell's family, the descendants of the Guinness beer fortune; her fabulous grandmother, Maureen, married royalty, and cultivated "talented snobs." (sic) Depending on a reader's orientation, one might even give the book a 4-star rating. The memoir is p [...]

    22. The daughter of Caroline Blackwood-(writer, muse, married at one time to both Lucian Freud and poet Robert Lowell) and a member of the famous, wealthy Guinness family, Lowell shows us how you can't have it all. Her celebrated mother was an alcoholic, her beloved step-father, Robert Lowell, was bi-polar, her elder sister died of a heroin overdose, Lowell herself was burned in over 70 percent of her body in a childhood accident and she found out as an adult that the man she thought was her father- [...]

    23. Ivana Lowell's uses her wonderful gift with words but she wastes it all on mindless, endless, tedious name-dropping of glittery pedigreed people who inhabited her pedigreed childhood. She treats her mother's alcoholism and her own alcoholism as some strange badge of distinction. The book is a page turner -- her gift with words makes me think SOMETHING interesting is bound to happen on the next page (I keep thinking) but (I'm nearly, but not quite done reading it) I really don't think that's goin [...]

    24. I found Ivana's life and experiences interesting, but her memoirs had so little to do with what being an heiress was like and more of how her unusual and sometimes sad upbringing had affected her. There was so little mention of anything Guiness or heiress-related and I felt this could have been any poor-little-rich-girl story. There was also no real point. You expect someone in a memoir to come to some sort of revelation or to come clean about something, but I ended the book thinking, "So, what? [...]

    25. I didn't care for this book at all. I found myself completely unsympathetic to Ivana's problems and her justifications for her behaviour. I know this is a memoir and that she went through some rough bumps as a child (including sexual abuse in which she recounted in such a way that made me feel like she was possibly a little proud of the fact), but the way she described every problem she had and every struggle she went through, and also the way she handled these things just made her more unlikeab [...]

    26. What a mess! And yet, impossible to put down! The most addictive kind of junk food read--I gobbled it up, but had a distinctly queasy feeling afterwards. The book is filled with surprising gossip (Why the Queen Mother was called "Cake" by her friends), literary hijinks (the author's stepfather was Robert Lowell), and some great anecdotes sprinkled amongst the visits to rehab and tales of increasingly impossible men. Ivana Lowell may be the quintessential poor little rich girl (and she really did [...]

    27. I only made it through the first seven chapters when I decided that this isn't a quality piece of work. It had the potential to be good, but I wonder how it got past the editing staff. It reads as if the author was in the early stages of writing it and was putting her notes together. The writing had no flow, and a lot of the details she gave needed to be fleshed out more. I did a brief web search about the author because I was curious as to what kind of education she had. She doesn't seem articu [...]

    28. Every person who has money and social position is not happy. How often have we heard this? The grandaughter of one of the Guiness sisters of the British Guiness fortune had a very unusual life surrounded by very colorful characters. Her grandmother liked to wear a false penis on her nose when she went visiting. And her mother's idea of decorating was to collect old rickity furniture and fill rooms with them. Ivana was in and out of rehab and didn't find out who her real father was until she was [...]

    29. Mixed feelings really, a bit disappointed, it was all rather fragmented which is not hard to understand. But the Lowell connection led me to think there would be more, for her to recover from that accident early in life, so damaged overall, and surrounded by damaged people; perhaps if it unfair to have high expectations of this life, perhaps it is enough that she pulled it together and wrote a book and began to do some self examination. It's a start, perhaps Ivana will want to write another book [...]

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